Black women dating scene
The same thing goes for many black men and even African men.For many centuries, the African-American woman was treated as if she was not "beloved" or a "Trophy" - but as someone to degrade, whorize, and made to work as a slave, and exploited sexually by the slave master whereas White women were prized. But judging from the stats and from our own experiences isn't it time that Black women start broadening our own horizons???Listening to her experiences makes me want to set something on fire.Christian has seen profiles declaring that they're interested in every race except black women, and someone once told her "her kind" wasn't "good enough to date." Another guy said he'd "always wanted to try a black girl" because rumor had it we're like "sexual toys." "I cried that night [after I got that message]," says Christian.
And what are your thoughts on the Charlotte dating scene? It’s like there are too many women so it’s ultra competitive or maybe guys just don’t want to settle down.” “If you’re in the scene for fun then you’re in the right place but if you’re looking for a meaningful relationship you’ve got your work cut out for you.
I bet you see a lot of black men with kids out there in your dating adventures. Robyn Thorpe: I do meet men who have children and even though the men are not with their ex-girlfriends or wives, I find that most men I come into contact with are in their children's lives and try their best to be good fathers. C.: I think black men have high rates of dating outside of the race because their mentality can be likened to black kids in the doll experiment.
What does raise my eyebrows, is meeting a father and him telling me that he only dates women with no children. Remember the psychological experiment with black kids, where black kids preferred white baby dolls to black dolls?
Finding a person who is willing to devote time to another person is extremely hard to find.” “Same people.
Men are just out to date as many women as possible.